Its not only about you, we all attract what we are! So, don’t be fully taken up because among your colleagues, X,Y and Z are actually not the kind of people you expected them to be, and don’t even be surprised when they turn out to be something else altogether. Because that’s the human race.You are therefore not even expected to blame them, because either way, all they do is unleash what they have inside of them. And you too are probably not even close to the kind of person they expected you to be.
A point to note here is that the fact that you have personal standards doesn’t mean that everyone will observe them the way you do. It doesn’t even mean that you should expect the same of everyone else around you. So, while you are at the journey of ensuring that you live to your standards, be the very person you would want to meet, at least for as long as you live. This way, you end up reflecting the character and virtues that you most admire in life. And like i said before, you will exactly attract the same kind of people into your life.
And no-one is going to step over you for this! And you won’t have to go through the burden of wanting to change someone else according to your own perspective. Because you are already there yourself.
Be what you what, what you have always desired, and you will see just that! Life seems easier that way, because you won’t have to expect everyone to surface just the way you want them to be!